Tuesday, January 26, 2010

The Domino Effect

The Domino Effect is another way of saying Compounded Grief. Serial monogamists without much healing in between relationships have to face the music sooner or later. Some go from serious and committed relationship to relationship without grieving each loss. Been there done that. The next relationship serves as a Bandaid without much chance of ever sticking or lasting. There's too much unresolved stuff we didn't sort through and learn from. It's like a giant emotional whammy when it hits. Enough is enough.

It's time to deal with the wake of all the relationship debris and get back to center. HOLD YOUR SPACE Give yourself the time you need to heal. We each have to be able to be alone and stand on our two feet before we can be healthy with someone else.

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