Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Focus

The biggest challenge when in a new relationship is to keep your feet on the ground and your eye on the ball. The "ball" is your life. FOCUS. What do you need to do to take good care of yourself in this new exciting time? When obsessing about him (and your life together) seems to be the greatest pastime you ever could dream of, get MOVING! DO something, anything, to get your energy moving and kickstart your day! Take care of business. You did have a life before he came along and somehow managed to live it. Whatever happens you still have a life...don't let the ball drop on you. You' re worth it. Keep it in the air. Your girlfriends (as much as they love you) may begin to tire of the minutia that is the new relationship and the "he said," "he said," and "he said".
He will call you again. Remember he is interested in you, too. You really can't mess it up...(within reason)..if you are meant to be together. There is nothing that interests a man less than a woman who is only focused on him and has no interests of her own.

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